What other people think of me....

Why do I care so much about what other people think of me. I worry about how they think I look or how I act. I know how I look is something I am stuck with for the rest of my life (unless I shell out the $$$ for some major cosmetic surgery), but I can change the way I act.

I have realized that I am a people pleaser. I want to make every one happy around me. I want people to like me.

I have never been a "girlie" girl. Never into the make-up, clothes, etc....but lately I have really started to worry about my appearance and how others see me. I have gotten contacts and started wearing make-up and making sure my hair looks nice.

It's taking an extra effort on my part to do this. I am trying to hard? Do I worry to much?